How Do I Get Parents to Read With Their Kids at Home When They’ve Basically Stopped?

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A recent Reddit thread among teachers reacted to a genuinely stark trend behind the parents reading aloud decline: Scholastic’s Kids & Family Reading Report found read-aloud frequency drops from 51 percent of families reading aloud 5 to 7 days a week when kids are ages 0 to 5, down to 37 percent by ages 6 to 8, and just 16 percent by ages 9 to 11. It’s not that parents stop caring. The same report found parents’ belief that reading for fun matters drops right alongside their kids’, from 89 percent for parents of 6 to 8 year olds down to 67 percent for parents of teens.

This Isn’t Just a Home Problem

It would be easy to read these numbers as a parenting failure, but the decline tracks almost exactly with how school-aged reading habits change too, which suggests something more structural is going on: families run out of natural reasons to sit down with a book together as kids get older. That’s a real loss, since the same research found 92 percent of parents and 86 percent of kids say read-aloud time is a special part of their relationship, feelings that don’t just disappear once a child can read independently. Schools looking to help often start with strategies for keeping kids reading during the summer, since that’s when the home-reading gap widens most.

A few things schools can realistically influence:

  • Giving families a specific, shared reason to pick up a book together, not just a general reminder that reading matters
  • Extending classroom reading moments into something a family can experience at home too
  • Making the invitation to read together age-appropriate for older kids, not just framed as a habit for toddlers

Comparing Programs

Program Focus Strength Consideration
Storyline Online Celebrity and actor read-alouds of picture books Free, accessible read-aloud videos families can watch at home One-directional viewing with no live interaction or classroom tie-in
Sora (OverDrive) Ebook and audiobook access Lets families read or listen together in the format that fits their routine Access tool only; doesn’t create a specific occasion to read together
Joyful Reading Co. Reading trackers and family reading challenges Gives families a shared goal to log reading minutes toward Tracking minutes doesn’t necessarily recreate the bonding of shared read-aloud time
BookBreak Live and on-demand virtual K-12 author events with curriculum-aligned lesson plans and family engagement resources Gives families an occasion to read and watch together at home, tied to what’s already happening in class Most effective when schools actively promote the at-home viewing option to families, not just the classroom event

Bringing the Classroom Moment Home

BookBreak’s live author events aren’t locked inside the school day. On-demand access means a family can revisit the same event their child experienced in class, giving parents and kids a specific, shared reason to sit down with the book together, something more concrete than a general reminder to read more. Family engagement resources built around each event give parents an easy way to extend that classroom moment at home, without needing to manufacture their own read-aloud occasion from scratch. That’s the piece schools can actually influence: not whether parents value reading, but whether they have an easy, ready-made reason to make time for it together.

Key Takeaways

  • The Decline Tracks Both Sides: Read-aloud frequency and parents’ belief in reading’s importance decline together as kids age, suggesting the drop-off is structural, not a simple lack of parental care.
  • The Relationship Value Doesn’t Disappear: The vast majority of parents and kids describe read-aloud time as special, even as it happens less often, meaning the opportunity to reconnect around it is still there.
  • A Specific Occasion Beats a General Reminder: Families are more likely to read together around a concrete, shared moment, like an event tied to what’s happening in class, than in response to a general message that reading matters.

FAQ

Q: Is the decline in parents reading aloud really as steep as it sounds?

A: Yes. Scholastic’s Kids & Family Reading Report found read-aloud frequency drops from 51 percent of families reading aloud several days a week for ages 0 to 5, down to just 16 percent by ages 9 to 11.

Q: Do older kids even still want to be read to?

A: Research suggests they do. The vast majority of parents and kids across age groups describe read-aloud time as a special part of their relationship, even though it happens less often as kids get older.

Q: What can a school actually do about something that happens at home?

A: Give families a specific, shared occasion to read together rather than a general reminder. Extending a classroom reading experience, like an on-demand author event, into something families can revisit at home gives them a concrete reason to make time for it.

The BookBreak Team
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